Nov 3, 2009 20:33 GMT-6
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  • LONELYJO...
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The notions of males "saving face" or marriages presenting united public fronts are largely irrelevant in western culture.

Maybe this is an unique phenomenon in China.
Nov 3, 2009 21:56 GMT-6
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Well, I think Confucius would smile...
Nov 3, 2009 22:26 GMT-6
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<<I agree with you, Marrie. I think sometimes the so-called face is very important to a man, well, at least to a Chinese man...^-^ But when it's not in public, it would be another story^-^ >>

It depends on which part of China u are from. When i went abroad, I heard and saw that Chinese from the up north east China and the down the south (Fu Jian and Guangdong province), the women in those families are relatively passive resulting from the root cause that men are supposed to be outside for earning a living for the whole family. And the husbands and its families even beat their wives for whatever reasons, which do surprise me!
Nov 3, 2009 22:37 GMT-6
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Well, it might be true. But I would never accept the "beat for whatever reasons". That's terrible Marrie...
Nov 9, 2009 03:25 GMT-6
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GUEST49163
Quote:

Originally Posted by WESTNORWOODGAS

Speaking for myself, after several years of dating British women without much finding the right one for me, I looked further married a filipino who I met in Hong Kong, although this marraige failed I decided I would try again, this time with a Chinese lady, fingers crossed, I have found a lady who truly loves me as I love her.


listen man she wants only your green card!!!
Nov 9, 2009 14:42 GMT-6
#376  
GUEST36221 I like "LIONPOWER" comment,
because I feel the same
I love my wife, Hua, flower, because of what she is, and I have no good explanation about that magic.
Also because She choose me, and I choose her.
Nov 16, 2009 18:04 GMT-6
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GUEST55743 DEAR BRO
BECAUSE THEY BOTH R LOVE TO EACH OTHER AND WANT LEAVE TOGETHER FOR EVER
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