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Do you believe in Yuan Fen?
Mar 27, 2008 00:49
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  • DESTRUCKDOZ
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Thanks so much for the informative post, Jimmy!
Mar 27, 2008 02:58
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Ha Ha, thanks JIMMYB, I will be busy for a week studying all those :-) :-).

I like缘木求鱼 the one about climbing trees to catch fish, I have heard it a few times before, ‘Hoping to master Chinese without making an effort is like climbing a tree to catch fish’.

Not quite sure how climbing up trees to catch fish relates to缘分 though :-) :-).
Mar 27, 2008 20:35
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You are welcome, Danny and Ralphh. Ralphh, you won't find 缘分 if you climb up trees to catch fish relates to 缘分. Why? No girls stand on the trees waiting for Mr. Right.
May 16, 2008 21:07
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GUEST18278 This is a very good explanation about "yuan fen". I came from Taipei and am working in Shanghai. I knew online friends by yuan fen. I do believe in yuan fen. There are so many people in the world, and why we know each other, it's yuan fen.

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May 19, 2008 07:09
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Jimmy mentioned 'pre-ordained relationship' as a possible mening. How many of these are we allowed Jimmy? Otherwise which one of my relationships was pre-ordained.... or do I have that pleasure to come? I hope against the odds it is the last option!
Jan 7, 2009 18:54
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GUESTALTHEA I was looking for the meaning of yuan fen when I found this thread. I'm not even Chinese, but the concept of yuan fen brings a smile to my face. It's complex but there's just something really wonderful about it. ;) I'm glad the posts here are very informative! Thanks!
Jan 13, 2009 14:37
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Google translated the characters into the word "fate" but based on the original post the word "chemistry" fits too.

>>>...perhaps falling in love at first sight is because of chemistry?

If it is chemistry alone this is the equation: chemistry = lust (perhaps there are rare exceptions)

But it can also be chemistry + fate = love ...that is if you believe in fate.

No one ever doubts the existence of "chemistry" but many doubt the existence of "fate."
Jan 20, 2009 21:41
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Fate?I believe in it currently just because of reality around me.
Jan 20, 2009 21:53
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Fate?I believe in it currently just because of reality around me.

Li, you mean you didn't believe it before? What makes you change your mind?
Jan 21, 2009 21:54
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ZOEY

I didn't change my mind at all.What I mean was that the feeling was getting stronger and stronger than before.
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