| Feb 11, 2008 20:27 GMT-6 |
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Without romance, marriage and love would become dry and withered. Marriage without romance is just like flowers without nutrients and water which could wither away. In fact, being romantic is not a difficult thing at all, but for some men it seems very difficult to learn to be romantic. It is very easy to be romantic, for instance, remember your girlgriend's birthday and your wedding anniversary day and give her a gift on that big day. Send her flowers on Valentine's Day is preferable. This is easy for men to do before marriage, but men seems to become forgetful about such things after marriage. This is the key problem.
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| Feb 12, 2008 03:38 GMT-6 |
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Girls prefer those boys who are romantic. Mature ladies prefer reliable and pragmatic men. Marriage is a more mature relationship than puppy love. It is possible that you marry someone first, then fall in love with him/her.
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| Feb 12, 2008 10:47 GMT-6 |
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As an old bloke who has been to a few 'grab a granny' dances in the past - I feel I can safely say that mature ladies also like to be romanced. :)
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| Feb 12, 2008 19:30 GMT-6 |
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Paul, did you work as a host in one of those singles cruise ships for seniors? ;-)
I think every man knows how to be romantic. It’s just that there are men who are afraid, ashamed or too lazy to be romantic. Some think it is beneath them or they have the idea that romance is just about jumping into bed. >_<
The problem I have with roses, etc. is that anyone can buy them and still not carry any feelings at all. It's ok as long as it's not mechanical, like just buy roses and get it over with so you can get laid. What the ---??? Roses or not, the key is sincerity. It’s a no brainer, but for some reason it seems to be too complicated for many men. There’s this joke about one guy who bought 14 sets of red roses and sent them to 14 different women with the same message, "To my one and only". O_o
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| Sep 7, 2009 17:13 GMT-6 |
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Marriage is a compatibility of trust. You marry based on what you believe will help you mutually advance. You have to trust that the person will make the best choices for you and them & vice versa.
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| Oct 25, 2009 10:40 GMT-6 |
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Am torn between the love of my life - but we belong to different country each committed to ones and different religion. After 6 years in Europe thats where I meet him, I am not back to my country because it is here I want to contribute my skills and knowledge. He went through very dreadful horrible childhood and long term relationship was out of his life until we met. The problem is he want to wait another 3-4 years for marriage, to see if he will get around to the idea. I am back in my country in Asia and hear I 've a dear friend who loves me very much. I can be very happy with him and in time I can learn to love him. He can offer all that I want material, emotional including marriage. I my heart I know I will not forget the love of my life but he can not promise me marriage.
I am torn between my love and the reality of my situation. What would you do if you were me?
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