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[quote=LEONARDO,252195]GUEST32134, So sorry to hear your story. Don't you think that he was not worthy of your love? I am not sure what your relationship with the western man is like now. Maybe, you are right that "that he wouldn't have the same opportunities to have met a much younger woman in his own native country, not being rich or powerful enough, but, of course, in China, his status was a different matter." In his native country, he might be nothing but an ordinary guy. However, in China, he was viewed as " unusual", because he spent "dollars". In China, there is a stereotyped mentality about "Western Stuffs and Western Men". It seems that " all the Stuffs made in the West are adorable. Particularly in many Chinese girls's eyes, Western men are rich, humorous, smart, sexy, virile and gentle. ( Of course, there are such kinds of Western gentlemen). However, are all the" Western Men" gentlemanly. Probably not! There are also "some wolves in sheeps' clothing". So be cautious! "The reason that not so many Chinese men have relationships or marry foreign women, is to do with earning power. " As to this statement, I am unclear about this, since there are few marriages between a Chinese man and a Western Woman. Is it because most Chinese Men are not rich enough? So may I take the liberty to generalize a conclusion (based on your statement) that Western women value " wealth or money" very much in dealing with their marriages. I am not sure about that since I had few contacts with "Western Women". I do hope that any Western Ladies who read this post can air your opinion or your stance about this Chinese Lady( GUEST32134 )'s statement. Is she right? What do you Western Women value in your marriage? [/quote]
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