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Thread: How to handle Mid-life Crisis?
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[quote=SHESGOTTOBE,264912]“Here a question for us: is it good or bad for a person to be mentally immature? I have ever heard a dialogue between two ladies : do not marry a mentally immature guy, you won't live a happy life with him. He is kiddish, and he might even rely on you to look after him. What do you think of this issue?” Here’s my 1 yuan. There are people who, even in choosing a spouse, they want a father or mother figure. They always end up comparing their spouses with their parents. Furthermore, they expect their spouses to act like their father or mother. Seriously, if they want a mother or a father, they should have just remained single and stayed with their parents. LOL! They want to be babied and pampered. Mentally, they never grew up. Many times they would throw tantrums if they don’t get what they want, just like spoiled brats. Kids are like this. They would scream and throw tantrums if they don’t get their own way. I know one couple wherein the husband never set his foot in the kitchen. I doubt he even know how their kitchen looks like. He would sit on a couch in front of the TV and just wait for his wife to bring the folding table and food in front of him. He never gets up to get anything. Everything is handed to him, including the newspaper. He never eats at the dining table. The wife eats alone at the dining table. One time, the wife got sick therefore she couldn’t fix him anything. You’d think at least at that time he would get up and fix something for them. No, he called his sister to come over and help them. O_o There are people who like having toys. By toys, I mean RVs, motorbikes, boats, etc, etc. Some like having lots of jewelry, luxury cars and designer items. Nothing wrong with that as long as they can afford them, but there are people who cannot afford paying for these things on top of paying the mortgage, credit card and utility bills. They do not know how to live within their means. They rationalize that they want to enjoy life. Well, nothing wrong with that too, except that in their desire to have those things, they can hardly pay their bills and end up being buried in debt. They can hardly feed the family and their possessions end up getting repossessed. Sometimes, they even lose their homes and file bankruptcy. Naturally, it would put serious strain to the marriage. Still, there are people who have a matured outlook when it comes to life’s serious issues. They know how to take responsibility, yet they know how to loosen up, be young at heart, enjoy life and have fun, within means and reason. [/quote]
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