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Thread: Why marry a Chinese girl?
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[quote=CHROE1963,455827]Ok. I got married to a Chinese woman, though everything was great, we have been married for 5 years.We have a 2 year old. Then I found out that for the first 3 years of our marriage she called a guy she had relations with over in China that lives in the US. She threatened to sue me for finding this out...(I know she can't do that) Now that I have filed for divorce...I really got screwed by the American Justice system. Not only can she take the child back to China , she can decide to stay there and I will still have to pay child support without ever seeing my child again. Point I am making here....... PLEASE PEOPLE!!!!!!! Do everything possible to wait for maybe 2-3 years before you decide to get married, if it is worth doing tell her to wait 2-3 years, if she insist you don't love her enough to marry her now...Chances are she knows the laws here in America and will take you for all you are worth. I know alot of you will disagree with me, but trust me on this. I never treated her bad, she always had what every I could afford to get her. She never paid a single bill and kept all her paycheck to do with as she pleased. Once we went to mediation, i though I had everything in order, the AMERICAN JUSTICE SYSTEM....played their hand as they always do. Lawyers wrote the papers and other lawyers picked apart the wording. Now I may lose my daughter for the rest of my life. Oh, the Judge did say if she doesn't return from China she will be in contempt of court....LOL Like that is anything for her to worry about...she get the money and the child in China and I get to know I have a daughter. Because you still have to pay her child support even if the child is in China, with her. Visitation and Child support are 2 different situation's,,, Oh and by the way once the child is in China she can go to the Chinese courts and get Full Custody of the child according to Chinese law and she won't be considered an abducting parent in China The reason being is China doesn't uphold any foreign court orders. Don't be fooled by the American Justice system here, they WILL NOT do anything to prevent or help in return of a child from China, or Japan. Also if she just claims you abused her in anyway, (no proof just claim) the American Justice system will remove you from YOUR house and property, give it to her and provide her with unlimited funds to fight you in court. I am only saying this to help people that may end up being in this situation. I do realize there are women in China with the best of intentions, but if she is 10 or more younger than you, be very wary or this pit fall. [/quote]
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