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Thread: Why marry a Chinese girl?
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[quote=GUEST70150,474167]I have known a Chinese lady for a few years now and we intend to marry in the next year or so. It saddens me to see the attitude of many on this forum who seem to have bitterness, or are ignorant of what Chinese culture means to many chinese people. My girl is smart, hard working and a success in her own right. She does not need me - a western man, for my money, nationality or any other reason than that she has grown to love me, and she wants (and deserves) a good, faithful, loving man as a husband. I have met her family in China. I took some time to understand enough of their culture to show them respect. They have responded by opening their hearts to me. Their attitude to family is in many ways a lesson that western society could learn from. If you think that chinese girls are submissive, and this attracts you because you are arrogant, or you think that you can push them around - think again - most of the chinese girls I have met are no fools. I expect that if they come to understand that you are like this they will leave you, and rather than face up to your problems you will blame them etc. Please look first at yourself. My girl seeks a man that cares for and loves her - and seeks to be submissive to her man. Not because she is weak, but because her husband is a strong, safe arm for her to hold. I guess any nationality of girl may be like this, and that some chinese girls have issues that make them unsuccessful as wives, but now I have met this person, I am biased towards a Chinese lady forever.[mood3][/quote]
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