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Thread: Romancing a Chinese woman
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[quote=SHAKINTHEMBONES,359826]Wow, what a great sight this is, I am really impressed with the insightful, and well thought out questions. I am good at being myself, and speaking from the heart, and I think that has a lot to do with what attracted her to me in the first place,I love to get her to laugh, and like to say things that will make her think. I am glad that you wrote that here, because it is something that I will need to remember when I am out of my element in China. Also, while listening is the key to any relationship, I think that it is even more so when a laguage barrier is present. I found that our first phone conversationwas a disaster, because I kept trying to ask questions, and kept talking, and to her it sounded like blah, blah, blah, haha, but when I slowed down, and let her slowly speak to me about what she wanted to talk about, it was great, I could hear how happy she was to teach me, and connect with me in that way. She loves it when I ask her to teach me chinese, and will go from sitting quietly on the phone, to initiating the conversation. I also think that the pressure is so much on her, to change, and learn my language, and move to the US, that I really, really, need to embrace where she comes from, especially when I don't think I will be able to learn fluent chinese, who knows, but I don't see it happening for a very long time anyway. And flowers are always great, I guess that is an international thing hehe. Thanks Armand[/quote]
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