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[quote=GUEST64810,386460]By the way, I am not a bitter ex and have not been married; in fact I am a virgin at 45. Tiring of the money-grubbing, materialistic self-centred egotistic and man-hating Western woman (and the Zionist media that constantly brainwashes Westerners into accepting the Marxist lies and Hegelian dialectic as the most appropriate way of life), I sought a wife whom I thought would be traditional. Unfortunately, because Singapore is one of (if not the most) materialistic countries and cultures in the WORLD (didn't know that until I went there) with more modern branded shopping malls per capita than any other country, I did not know that Singaporean women are perhaps the most 'liberated' and 'feminist' women in the world and, hence, with my galfriend earning three times my salary (when I can get work in IT), and having worked hard to climb the corporate ladder, it was something of not a shock to be told by her father recently that he felt I needed to wait a bit longer (after eight years) to marry her, since I don't have a good enough job (I have had to move to China from Singapore to get one, as without PR in Singapore, you don't have a chance unless you are INDIAN and have programming skills, or you're MAINLAND CHINESE or INDIAN and are willing to work without any minimum wage or benefits -- trust me, there are hundreds of thousands of these people in Singapore and they're increasing by the day, as Singaporeans refuse to work for low pay and non benefits and must -- to save face -- work in office jobs etc.). So, there's my story for ya and it's a bit sad, since I do love my galfriend. But the fact is she IS Chinese and boy, if you haven't done your due diligence on this one, believe me a little bit of poon will definitely not go a long way in this case. My prediction is you will divorce within the first year, as (whether you like it or not) her motives for wanting to marry you are HIGHLY SUSPECT. Did you know that the average salary in her home town is something like US $2000 a year, perhaps less? Did you know that if you marry her, many of her relatives and friends (and her culture) will consider that she is a prostitute in a sense, and a traitor to her culture? You're a nice guy; but your idea that you can learn her language (and culture IS the language) within a short time is a joke and it shows your lack of understanding and preparation: there are more than 3000 pictographs used in the Chinese languages to denote meaning. English has 26 characters and is a very rich language indeed (with a history, perhaps, that goes further back than the Chinese language); yet with such few characters, so much can be said. I think you need to lose your rose-colored glasses for your own good (though it's painful) and REALISE that the COMPLEXITY of the Chinese language REFLECTS the COMPLEXITY of the Chinese culture.[/quote]
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