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Thread: western man marrying chinese woman in america on work visa questions on living toeather
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[quote=WMILLETTE,416846]ok more info for you...... yes i surprise vivit her work often and i check her phone text and calls often never i find anything to worry me she ggood girl she no text anyone.....she no like to text as for calls she no hover over phone she very laid back.... i do know she loves me but she worries me because i big baby....want lots attention and time... what i want to know now please...... how far can i push issues.....of her spending more time and her helping with finances.. i pay lot bills and cant keep afford to live lifestyle she think americans have i pay rent elecctric water internet cell phone car payment car insurence motorcycle insurence health club membership cell phones child support large ammount household supplies and food plus lately.....taking her out to eat very much......buying her gifts....extra gas money to drive to her work 2 round trips per day......and this month im expected to buy airfair hotel and rental car for week in california for her to show up in immigration court for no reason other than she required to be present with her lawyer for trying to get asylum fied....witch i dont think i have enough monies to do.... what will she think when i say im broke can you help? she seems to be spoiled woman with no idea most americans live paycheck to paycheck and usually both man and woman work and pay bills togeather... im a great guy,very loving,and kind,and extreemly generous but i cant give what i dont have.... shes already talking about new car for her.....and bigger home...and more clothes.... im barely paying bills now so what do i do..... she must be making atleast $1,800.00 usd a month, i asked her the other day to borrow 10.00usd so i could eat because i was broke and dident et paid till next day.....she said yes but wouldent give it to me..... she is getting love,english lessons,driving lessons,a nice home in great neighborhood, learning computers, and eating at resteraunts, and some entertainment,and full massages,lots of pampering,marriage to get greencard,wedding and honeymoon in bahamas,and allowed to take my sports car to work when she finishes learning how to drive. im getting,,some love,very few chinese lessons,i cant think of anything else right now i havent even got a massage yet and thats what she is doing for work....!! i know when i look at what i wrote.....seems im really going the distance for her but why? she is ok looking but there is flaws so she is no model just average girl...not very eduicated....and not very affectionate or aware of courting eddicate so why the hell am i stressing over trying to make her such a queen...and keep giving without recieving much in return.....is it because im hoping she will slowly start to give me and us what we need and want? is it because im really hoping this will work out and we will be togeather forever and not just till she gets greencard? call a psyciatrist...i need help[/quote]
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