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Thread: Once you marry a Chinese woman, it is tantamount to marrying her entire family.
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[quote=GUEST62873,499192]I came to this site because i just had an argument with my Chinese fiancee. wow. So many truths, I'm laughing and crying and saying OMG! I'm a 45y old Aussie man, I met a mainland woman, 39, when she was visiting HK where I live & work. Her English is not great, 6 out of 10, but she goes to classes and I'm an ex English teacher, so we can communicate, thank you google translate. After 4 montHs of seeing each other on weekends in china and the odd whole week she would visit me in HK, we decided to get married. Her cooking is awesome (im eating veges!), she is adorable, she owns 4 apartments (not after my money) and sings my name when she is doing things around the house. She has asked me if her Dad can live with us in the future, I said ok. I've met him and he's good. She wants to have 2 children and buy a house in Australia with me to live in the future. She will pay half. Although she does want to sign a pre-nup to protect her apartments if we divorce. I get cold feet once a week, previous divorce does stuff with ones head. She has some things that I thought were culturally different, it's not, she is a woman. She is worried I will leave her. She is worried I will not like her if she puts on some weight. She is worried about my health. When I asked if she is a racsist, she said of course, all Chinese people are, who do you dislike? In all of the above posts, she is like some and not like others. I suppose we are all individuals. We have disagreements. I have just convinced her the cold shoulder doesn't work, we need to communicate, now she is, over a delicious bowl of noodles Am I doing the wrong thing marrying her I ask myself? Are the cultural gaps too big to cross? Is she just after something? People that really know me say they have not seen me this happy in 10 years. This is a huge step. What's the worst that can happen? [/quote]
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