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Thread: Help....American man just engaged to Chinese woman here in USA on work visa
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[quote=GUEST41582,415855]Sorry for confusion, She lives with her female boss and 6 other female co workers Any time I even start to mention money she gets angry and mad.....she say I'm supposed to do all Her husband and children are in Beijing china not USA only her older sister lives here and has her green card. She told me her parents say it's ok to marry me... Her coworkers and sister also said they want to see us get married.. She holds a nonimmigrant work visa only Today I got to see her for an hour and take her to breakfast then to get groceries then had to rush her back to work then she said i have to go home cus customers and I won't see or hear from her till midnight then she will call and chat for 30-45 minutes... I really miss her and want to spend time with her, also she has long periods at work with no customers and she don't text or even try to call me even though I asked her.... She also never gives me anything no gifts and no love letters and no text messages to say she loves me just the call at 12 at night...is this normal for traditional girl? She say she no loves her husband in china and her parents made her marry, should I believe her? She never talks bad about him and won't tell me what really went on in her relationship.. When ever we talk I always have to be the one to keep conversation going she don't just talk.....is this normal? Today she seemed affectionate for her anyway, but quiet, and she definitely cares about making money as very high priority, her boss is opening another store closer to me but she said today she no want to work there cus maybe not busy........she only gets paid per customer and not per hour.... Why does it have to be so hard to know if she really wants and cares about me like she says to me, If she American I would say she likes me because I do zoo much for her but that's all... But being traditional Chinese I'm trying to figure out if her actions and sayings are in my favor or if she's just using me? I study every video and website and forum I can to try to find answers but the really important ones are not there? [/quote]
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