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[quote=SHESGOTTOBE,261357]When people settle for less and when they marry someone they barely know, of course they’d be incompatible. Sometimes people think they know each other when in truth they don’t. One guy I know was very eager to marry a girl because she looked so innocent, pure and delicate. After marriage, he divorced her when he found out she wasn’t a virgin anymore when they got married.

Some people think that marriage will solve their loneliness, or just because they are getting old or maybe they just need someone to cook for them. LOL! After marriage, they realize that they are still lonely, lonelier even because they feel trapped and he/she won’t really cook for him/her. After marriage, they realize that they are wasting more of their years being miserable.

Also, some of them got married because of family pressures therefore; the divorce was already planned even before they got married. They married just to satisfy their families. Many people marry just because society dictates that they are supposed to. Some people marry because they just want to get away from their family.

I can’t blame if people get divorce. I don’t really have a right to tell them they can’t. They can live their life however they want to. People fall out of love. People grow and people move on. Why force two people to stay married if they are miserable. Life is too precious to live that way.

People expect a lot when they marry so when their expectations are not met; one thing falls down after another like a domino until the whole marriage collapses. Marriage is not easy but for some reason people have this imagination that it is all bliss. The very mention of the words “marriage” and “wedding” has the power to make people daydream. If it is really that easy as many people would like us to believe, then divorce won’t even exist. The very fact that it exists means that the law and society recognize that it is necessary. I know so many people who remained “married on paper” but the marriage itself already ended long time ago. I understand that marriages end no matter how much we try to idealize it. 
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