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Thread: Curiosity may very well kill the cat.
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[quote=APAULT ,34575]I chatted with a lady (can't say 'girl' as we are both of mature years!) for about 8 months and then visited. She invited me to stay in her home. The problem was I did not relate to her in real life as I did in chatting with video on the Net. It was VERY difficult extracting myself from this relationship which in her eyes was as good as being engaged. Basically she had said this to her friends and relatives. As well as being upset she lost a lot of face with her friends and especially neighbours because she had had a man in her apartment.Generally speaking, the Chinese see a relationship as more binding than we might from the west. When parents hear their son/daughter has a gf/bf they think about formal enagagement as the next and likely step (I have discussed this with many uni students).So I advise caution and recommend getting your own accommodation at first. [/quote]
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