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[quote=SHESGOTTOBE,362319]This is very common. Here’s my take. I don’t know you or your supervisor so I can’t really tell whose ‘at fault’ or who is ‘the problem’. Everyone of us has our own quirks. We might have some mannerisms or characteristics that annoy our co-workers. I found out that the best way to deal with this is to be friendly with the offending person. If you are friendly, you can start talking about more personal things and even joke. Then you can start to be open to each other. This would open up understanding and even correct whatever it is that needs to get corrected. Get to know your supervisor and see why she is that way. Picture yourself as her and see how you would do things differently, complete with all the issues and  responsibilities that she faces. Who knows, you could end up as friends.

Another alternative is to quit. But then, you would soon find out that your new co-workers are even worse. Sure, you don’t have a jealous supervisor but you could end up next to a co-worker who cuts his nails in his cubicle and a piece of his nail lands on your table, hahahahah!!!! Or somebody who talks on the phone non-stop or co-workers who keep on bragging about their children. We don’t live in a perfect world filled with perfect people. There are no jobs that are perfect with perfect working environment with perfect co-workers. In the end, it boils down to your attitude.

As a subordinate, your job is to make things easier for your boss. That is the only reason why you are there. A company will not spend money on another salaried employee that is not needed. You, on the other hand is to make sure that you never lose sight of what is important to you. All the rest are just distractions.
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