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Thread: Living in Chagsha as a British husband with Changsha wife - What can I do?
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[quote=GUEST31188,452386]Your ideas, estimates and observations are right on, especially considering your age. Things could have much different for you if you were retired. My Chinese wife goes to her hometown every year, but is always very excited to come back to the US. It's the new vs. the old. The 6 to 8 weeks she spends catching up with family and old friends cures her longings and she doesn't miss China that bad anymore. All of a sudden she notices things about life in China she paid no attention to before. Some of them: congestion, pollution, traffic, high food prices and others. Your wife is expecting and it's the nesting instinct that's taking over, plus she wants her parents near her in this situation. That's perfectly all right. Tough call. I know how important it is to devote yourself to the growing business, but try to give the family a little more time. Your boy will need you a lot more now with mom busy with the new baby.[/quote]
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