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[quote=GUEST13110,598372]My brother lived in China for 5 years.  3 of those spent with a Chinese girl he ended up marrying and having a child with.  They came to America.  At first, things were rough.  She had a hard time adapting, and it took a revisit with friends and family in China for her to realize that America is a good home for her and their child.  Ever since, they have been happy.  None of the negatives people post are true.
I'm on Chinese girlfriend number 2.  First girlfriend I dated for nearly a year.  She had her goals and ideas, but her anxiety is what killed our relationship.  She couldn't bring herself to leave her job, family, or life behind in China to be with me in America.  In reality, our cultural differences got in the way.  She is very pro-China and found so many "wrongs" with Western cultures and lifestyle.  Naturally, she broke it off with me when the time for her to get serious about our future knocked on her door.
Chinese girlfriend number 2... A complete opposite of girlfriend number 1.  And she absolutely loves America.  So much that she's spending her entire 6-month visa staying with me.  Naturally I'm suspicious and we've started having our serious talks about things like family and finances; because I learned much from girlfriend number 1, and my brother's wife.  So far, no red flags, and I do see marriage with her right around the corner.  She is a wonderful woman to me.  A real loving sweetheart.  But I'm trying to find out if all that will change after marriage, as her son now has came into the picture of our relationship.
I'm convinced though...like any other person in this world, there are good people and bad people.  Sure our cultures may be different, but what makes us civilized humans never changes.  I'm just want to know my girlfriend better before I say "I do".  Unfortunately I only have a few months left before she has to leave.  Good luck to me.[/quote]

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