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[quote=JAYB,599438]Part Two

For me the biggest problems started with the birth of “our” son. And her mother coming down to take care / help out. (What I honestly thought was a great idea).

Now here is where it comes down to right: You are still going to be the little B!TCH (yeah you could try to take charge but they won’t let you do that) Even If it would be possible to take charge it most likely would be punching her into a pulp. (What I’m A: against and B: won’t do any good because they are too stubborn) *Like that little puppy that keeps peeing on the sofa (because it’s missing a few chromosomes.

Anyway her mom came here, and there was a discussion because of them sleeping together with the baby on our bed (babies have cribs put them in there).The mom on one side my ex on the other the little guy in-between them. When I walked up and found out that the arm of my ex was covering his mouth and nose. When I freak out they denied it like it didn’t happen.( good example for the topic “FACE” and how to save FACE). I wish I had pulled my phone out of my pocket and made a picture of it.(of course my first reaction was babies life first talk later kind of move).

Here’s a good example for “ITS OUR WAY OR THE HIGHWAY” #theflooristoocold: But the floor turned out warmer than the bed he used to sleep on at that time. It was summer and he was just about 3 or 4 months old. (Just before my ex decided to leave with “our” son and with her mom) to stay without my consent and go up to the north of China. I put our baby play gym on the living room floor and wanted him to spend some time in the living room because his life was more bounded to our upstairs bedroom at that time.(well most of his time he was upstairs on the bed).When I put him down on the baby gym his grandmother went apesh!t. Because the floor is too cold (this is Fuzhou summer and it gets hot). So I double check the floor to see if it’s cold or not. I decided to get the digital thermometer to check the floor temperature (reading about 26 degrees / 80 Fahrenheit.(yes this one can also check the temperature of any item between -3 to about 80 Celsius). Then I went upstairs to check the temperature of the bed he stayed on and that was 26.8 (the bed was warmer than the floor). When confronting my ex and her mother they did the only “right” thing they could do. Not take any responsibility or “give in”. And of course I “lost” also that battle. *YOU CAN NOT “WIN” BECAUSE IT’S ONLY THE CHINESE WAY! They only can listen to some Chinese person that has more face or simply outranks them.

Same with a guy I know here, he had a one hour discussion with his wife. This was about his son playing with the wife’s phone (3 year old kid). After one hour of bickering, she “gave” in and said ok ill don’t let him play with it. Guy goes shopping and comes back, yeah the kid is playing with that same phone again. As you can see, it simple is a battle you can’t win.

End of part two
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