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[quote=JAYB,599439]Part Three

With this stuff being said, and yes there is soo much more to write down. Of course you can be the so called “lucky” one and don’t have these problems. Because you girlfriend / wife is “different”. What I doubt she is in all honesty.

The saddest part that came was when my mother-in-law and ex and son moved back up north of China for about 3 weeks. That quickly turned into months. Me and my ex had many arguments and shit went from bad to worse. One of the main reasons was of course about money. And me saying that it was time for me to start managing it. Something she wasn’t that happy about (I guess it was because of her credit card debts). What she never really talked about, my guess is that she had major debs before we even met. Even if I can’t proof this, but if something smells like shit and it looks like shit you might want to consider it probably will be sh!t.

What really fucked me up for some time (and still does from time to time) is that my son is about a year and a half and I have seen him 3 months out of that. Peeps embassies can’t do jack for you her in China 
besides helping you in case of a “true” emergency (and still not able to do a lot) or they can help you with a new passport or handle visa appliances. So they set up a report with all the details so they do know about this. What I didn’t know that under Dutch law, what my wife did was in fact committing a crime called kidnapping. Like the dude from the embassy said: Keeping a child away from one of the parents without consent from the other under a different address is kidnapping. Then you could say, why you didn’t go to the Chinese cops. Yeah, well my experience is that if I would have is going to be laowai VS China. And I would have lost that battle.

Anyway it’s my birthday and ironically it is also father’s day while I’m typing this… SO happy F-ing B-Day to me. 19-06-2016

So, the question now could be: Whom can make it work with a Chinese girl….? Well there are multiple answers to that. Laid back people without any care in the world. (Stoners that can still function aka do their jobs to) If you could lower your standards and leave your morals at home life in China will be easier (and so there for the relationship with your girl). Then again if you are like me and have a slight case of OCD and you are somewhat a control freak, life will be a lot harder…(grinning ). Also if you are able to get your girl to your home country life will be easier because her family won’t be breathing down your neck 24/7 yeah most of the time the grandparents will move in with you guys after the first child is born. So that will give you zero privacy and will probably drive you to the point where you want to blow your brains out. Unless of course you just say this following mantra (and put it on repeat): My life is good, China and its people are reasonable and not selfish at all. TIC TIC TIC (This Is China).

End of part three[/quote]

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