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[quote=JAYB,599440]Part Four

Then you also will have different types of girls in China, educated uneducated from a wealthy background new and old money and the working class and the “poor”. Then you can have the adventure girl, the left over ones and the: Hello you are my new fashion accessory, and you are replaceable.

There was a African friend of mine (in china the lowest “quality” laowai you could find) remember laowai = foreigner. That was having a relationship with a Chinese girl from Ningbo. After dating her for about 5 years and she now being 26/27 years old. Its marriage time ASAP (anything after 28 and you are considered a left over woman in China) There for you are sort of expired and doomed never to get married unless you can find a laowai… So the girl decides to go back to her hometown and she got married to some wealthy Chinese guy after 4/5 months. The way I see it it’s like this: here is proof that it mostly business and to get your parents and peers of your back. It’s also somewhat super F’ed up in my opinion, because she just left the laowai for dead just because he didn’t want to get married at that time. GUYS !!! 5 years together and you just go, oh sorry I need to get married so let’s do this or I find someone else COME ON!

Even a more F’ed up story is about a local girl that got married and has two kids with a laowai . They lived together here in China. So what happened (and no I don’t know the full story) she bumped into another laowai (this dude got money) and while still married to the laowai got pregnant. #golddigger now they are going to move back to this guy’s home country with their new baby. This girl is leaving here other kids with her ex here in China and is moving on to a “better” place.

So to get back to dating Chinese girls from different backgrounds. If you really need to or want to there are some options in my opinion. You could go for the left over girls /woman that have made it by Chinese upper class standards. Because she is basically the boss of the whole family and will do what she wants to do. (Family won’t bother or will bother less in your guys relationship) . Younger girl with wealthy parents and with younger older brother (very important she has a brother) because the focus will be more towards him. So it’s better if he is already married of course… But what will help you out even more, are the ones that have lived abroad for at least one or more years. Because those are the ones that know there is more than “5000” years of China and “THE China way”. Its works both ways btw because China is for sure a lot different from what I thought it was before coming over here.

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