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[quote=JAYB,599441]Final Part

So to get back to dating Chinese girls from different backgrounds. If you really need to or want to there are some options in my opinion. You could go for the left over girls /woman that have made it by Chinese upper class standards. Because she is basically the boss of the whole family and will do what she wants to do. (Family won’t bother or will bother less in your guys relationship) . Younger girl with wealthy parents and with younger older brother (very important she has a brother) because the focus will be more towards him. So it’s better if he is already married of course… But what will help you out even more, are the ones that have lived abroad for at least one or more years. Because those are the ones that know there is more than “5000” years of China and “THE China way”. Its works both ways btw because China is for sure a lot different from what I thought it was before coming over here.

Now as far as it gets to what decisions I made in the past regarding my marriage, I hoped and at one point in time thought my ex was different. (oh boy how wrong can one be). There were many warning signs but we both took some shortcuts and lie to our self’s that everything would be better (well at least I did). But at one point she got pregnant (I never wanted kids or get married) and for some good reasons I have to say. But let’s not get into that right now. What I should have done was trusted my guts (yeah I blame all this on myself) I knew or thought this would all turn into sh!t and so it did. I just hope that by sharing this “Oh note to self” :( writing helps a lot btw). That the people out there can learn from my experiences (because like me, most have no clue what they are getting themselves into). I don’t want to put the people of China (mostly mainland) down or make them look over the top bad. But my opinion is that they are just another breed of “people”. And if your guts say this girl is the “ONE” then put a 110% into it.

So why this whole piece, If I can help / warn people about the consequences of getting together with a Chinese girl. And if I can save someone from wasting their time and saving them from A lot of problems and hurt then my story and my pain haven’t been a waste after all. (at least a little less) .

Cheers, #JB[/quote]

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