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[quote=GUEST27173,599719]I have watched my son go from a vibrant, healthy, happy, confident, up beat man to a bedraggled, skinny, under confident, whipped, scared, and completely unhappy human being. His hair has gone totally gray. He is mid 30's. My son could have had any woman he wanted in his own country. Incredibly good looking, graduated Masters in top 5% of school, makes good money, loving personality, good father. He went to China in 2009 to get international experience to boost his employment opportunities. Biggest mistake ever! Chinese woman was sweet in beginning. Wooed him. SHE found and pursued HIM. Found out later she had a history of dating only foreigners. It's obvious she had a plan. Second day after landing in United States, they went shopping for the $4000 Chanel hand bag. Now they live on HIS money. She has thousands in Chinese bank that only she has control over. The money never comes to the US. He has worked as many as three jobs at a time to support her new life, a life she constantly snaps pictures of and sends back home. I sponsored her to come to the United States at my son's request as at the time he didn't have a job. Now he is working only to be able to sponsor her family to come over. It is her demand. If anything does not suit her, the first thing out of her mouth is, "I want a divorce".  He cow toes to that threat because he loves his little daughter so and wants her raised with good standards in the United States. They lived with me for two years. I witnessed her having NOTHING to do with him when something went wrong, wouldn't talk, would stay shut in her room, playing on QQ. He would try to engage her to get out of the house and do something fun. She wouldn't. He never even knew his "error" with her. I have seen him sit on my front porch and sob over the total lack of love. Any of you men out there that are "taken in" by the Asian beauty, and the ability they have to hook you by their sweet, subservient manner, please know they are incredibly vicious and cunning. You are a smuck if you fall for it. My son is trapped, as am I, because we are her joint sponsors to the US. If a divorce happens, WE, my son and I are responsible for her living. READ the sponsorship contract.  I have contacted an attorney and the only way out is if I die! These Chinese women KNOW what they are doing! I have seen incredible apathy towards her own child even. They became pregnant immediately and I often wonder if that was also her cunning way of trapping my son. The little girl is precious but she is NOT cared for by her mother! The only care the child gets is when Dad is home. I've seen the child wear ONE diaper all day and the same outfit, day and night for five days in a row. Only Dad will finally bathe her, play with her, read to her, love her. The mother is non-existent. I, for one, cannot even understand the complete apathy towards a child. Chinese women have a way of shutting down where there is NOTHING!  My son has become a shell of a man.[/quote]

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