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[quote=MAYMAY,365549]Hi Azizah,

Iam an Indonesian who posting and get ur reply. Thanks for answering.

I must said, even if my hubby can /able to just, well i myself have an ego. I dont want to share my hubby with other girl. And if i against this, i maybe have to prepare to get divorced. In other religion its not allowed and considered sinner. But when the religion doesnt think it as a sin, it is becoming a common lifestyles, and happens more than in other non muslim community. Its dangerous when this lifestyes is perceived as normal.

Well lots of chinese non muslim who have concubines, mistress, and so on... but its lessen and if so, well at least it is considered extramarital. And if the worst scenario that i got divorces... i may still keep the kids and they know who is to blame.

And there are more other reasons... such as we non muslim are considered Kafir. Eventhough it couldnt be bad in term of the meaning... but in my hometown it perceived as very very negative.

Third reason, i do love animal... I love my doggy and if i marrying a muslim i suddenly cant keep doggy? as dog/pig considered haram. I mean dog is a very loving animal... but how can it considered as Najis (things or persons regarded as ritually unclean) ? I saw many times children throw a stone to innocence dog on street and shouting Najis !!! Najis !!! It hurt my feelin so deeply.

There are lots of mixed religion couples here in my hometown. All i can say that most of the muslim usually ask the girl to convert and their children must be muslim, and some guys usually say... Ok u can keep r religion but our kids have to be muslim. Well obviously no, cos i do want my kids to learn some of my chinese cultures/belief cos many are good for them to know. And to be fair... we both can teach them our cultures/belief and let them choose which one they like rite?

Well, I do have many muslim friend, and frankly speaking they are polite, nice and yes some of the muslim teaching are very good. I do want to apply some of their teaching in my life. But when it come to long term/marriage relationship i must think twice... cos not because their religion is negative... but because there are too many diffrences and i cant accept that i have to adopt their belief and sacrifice my own. its just not rite for me. If i met christian/catholic guy, maybe i still can consider.

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