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[quote=GUEST11918,288859]My brother has brought a young Chinese woman twice to Canada....she was apparently 23 the first time and could barely speak English.  Now she is 27, her English is perfect.  She says she is a University educated nurse, her brother is a doctor.  But she never talks about her parents, has no pictures to show us, never talks about friends.  I know that it is because my brother, who is older (58) allows this, but she sits at home in the house she says will be her's when they marry, and does nothing.  No meals.  No housework.  She lets him cook and clean and there is no offer of help.  No studying for Canadian exams for nursing.  I do not trust this because she will tell me nothing of herself.  My brother is furious that I have told this young woman to please not sit on his lap and poke at him while I am there.  I have asked her to please not wear her pyjamas when I visit.  She tells me everyone in Hong Kong wears pyjamas at home, even with company.  I am upset that this young woman appears to be a GIRL...in body shape and behaviour, and I am worried that she is being marketed.  I do not trust someone who has no stories to tell me of her home, family and friends, and who does not even talk to my own Asian daughter-in-law.  Yes, we have other Asians in our family and I am so proud of my daughter-in-law for being a wonderful addition to my family, a wonderful wife to my son and a wonderful mother to my half-Asian grandsons....who speak two languages perfectly and who understand both cultures because they are being raised Asian.  What can anyone say about this girl and if she is honourable or am I justified in thinking her being private hides secrets?  She finds Caucasians rude.  Yet she will not look at me or talk to me and I am the oldest female in this family and the sister of the man she "says" she loves.[/quote]

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