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[quote=GUEST64107,300451]well i have the same question in my mind, ...my friend ( not chinese) had a chinese bf about 5 years ago for 1.5 year, they met by internet^_^ and all was so perfect, as real soul mates, share everything together, happy or very hard thing,but my friend hided she had a bf in before time as he told he only want a girl who had not a bf, so she was really scary to loose him, but then regret it all the time, as he find out one old email in her pc and break up. 5 years they never saw each other, just few emails and he called few times and asked a meeting when she visited china, but that time it didnt work out as he flied to AU before she arrived to china,,, both of them during the 5 years didnt love any other one and even didnt date as couldnt to repair a heart , just worked hard all the time . this chinese new year the boy asked my friend again to meet and visited her in china for 5 days ( as he was in holiday to china but works in AU and she study and works in china ) , visited her instead of meet a girl that his parents wanted to introduce, and it seemed he tried to put in 5 days all love he missed to give in 5 years, after back AU he keeps call her everyday and talk 1-2 hours, even so busy in work, and on weekends talk more 2-6hours. and worry and try find solution for anything, even for very small problems happens to her ( like from the ants in the room,,, to help her buy a new pc after her one was totally broken, can just listen to her speaking anything for hours, or just keep silence together, but refuse to use webcamera as once used and couldnt control his emotions to miss her more). so even from far distance still she feels his love and care. but when she is asking if he wants to be together again, he says no,l that he thinks loved her not the same as before and now cannot trust same as before,,,. she felt really sad and depressed and asked stop call her as it is more painful and killing her, and didnt take his phones, but he kept call more, and told still will call even if she no takes the phone, and still asking to meet her next holiday ,,,but still says no future together,,, what that's mean?!! maybe he is scary to love again ? or testing her love, or just confused him self , or worry if parents no accept his love to this girl after they part in before. i cannot believe he just wants to make a friends as it is so painful for them both, cannot just enjoy a pain, if no any planes then should to avoid contact, isnt it? Do you think any hope for them ? i feel so pity to see how she gets so sad, but no idea what to advice, to insist not take his phone or to get more patience and wait any of you had experience to reunion with ex bf/gf?[/quote]
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