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[quote=GUEST10223,391936]My wife is Chinese from Beijing. She is 25 and myself 38 (my first time married). I travelled alot in China and Hong Kong in the past on business. I met her when she was 23 and in University, I was her first real bf and her "first man", her parents were very keen we marry and that she came to join me in England and made it her home, now last year like so many my income had greatly dropped after job lose and I had to take a few rubbish jobs just to pay the bills, sadly this was the time she was comming over to England on a settlement not fiancee visa which had been passed due to my past earnings and savings.

I did give gold at the Chinese family engagement party, but no money! I had just paid for Wedding albums and large framed photos at a cost of £1650.

On arriving she was very homesick and cried everyday, spoke to her mother on Skype for 3-4 hours aday, we had an English wedding that went well in Church.After 4 months of tears everyday saying she wanted to go home to her mum she returned home, I have only had a few emails from her since she returned! I do know her mother put preasure on her about money and her mother kept telling her she was ill this added to her feeling of guilt, but my main aim is to pay the bills here and I have not got enough spare cash at the moment to send money back to her parents, as she was no working and I am working in a much lower paid job than in the past, a large house that is up for sale but until it sells I don't have much extra but to Visa, lawyer and legal, general high bills and wedding costs!

I have many friends who married Chinese girls and YES if you marry them you marry their families![/quote]

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