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[quote=GUEST37105,375824]I am a Western woman, at 22 years old I fell in love with a Chinese man, 31 yrs old. At first yes I was so impressed with all of the kindness. However, only in my experience, it is extremely hard to live with the double standard. He can say whatever when he is mad, but cannot handle it if I do. If I do something he does not like, he came do the same and not only not take responsibility for it, but feel I need to make it up too, or change my actions. If not, affection, kindness and general understanding is removed. Then the tables seem different. Where is the man I married? How did he take total control of all aspects of life and make me feel bad for ever questioning anything. It is a way I am starting to worry about. He admits that he does wrong, and does not fill the need to change it. He said it was not as bad or he had an excuse, so therefore, it is wiped away. No matter how I try to explain, or make him understand, he says he is not wrong, I am. Any advice for how or what to do in handling culture? He says no one ever questions him. But, I feel as his wife their are things I need to know and I am not happy being shut off. His feeling on me answering and explaining however is a must with no exception, because he points out, a chinese woman would never stand up to a man. Well, I am not Chinese. Please help.[/quote]

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