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[quote=GUESTJELLYBEAN,381781]Even though all Americans isnt white. I am though. Most Americans get the wrong idea about Chinese. Most of the Chinese that came to America I see them with there wifes. There wifes are always happy and smileing. I even wonder with all the bad things that were said about Chinese men how are they still so happy. At first I though maby it because there use to it so they suck it up and smile anyways. Oh was I wrong. 5 to 6 years ago my husbend moved to America from China. Shortly after we met and I wanted to see why chinese women were so happy with there husbends.

At first we stared out as friends. The first time we hung out. He told he he had a girlfriend back in China and then he would kiss my on the top of my head and try to fill me up. I refused him. After that he told me that his girlfriend in China was getting married to his bestfriend. I didnt know that. He didnt try to tuch me again for the rest of the night. We both went home and called each other then next day to hang out again. He tried again but again I refused. Slowly as 2 weeks went by he started calling me his girl. At his work I was his wife. After a few more week he got what he wanted.

Then the planes for us came out. We planed to get married and have babys. So we had a huge talk about the life our child would have. Were finaly married and plan to have that baby after we come back from China in 2010.

The reasion why im happy with him is becasue he made me fill better about the Chinese life and he take extreem care of me. He makes me smile. He gets me. His parents love me alot. My chinese is not extreemly clear but his parents are seeing that i'm atleast trying to make an effort to understand and talk to them in there laguage.

Why most Chinese people get shot down is becasue they dont unerstand american women. They know what there friends tell them and what they read online. My husbend at first tried to do something to me that I wasnt ready to do. He didnt care if he got shot down or not. Then he realized that I had a heart. So he took it slow with me. Just like Chinese women. You have to treat them with respect and learn to understand them like they would for anyother person they ever meet. Women in america would change alot about them selfs aslong as there boyfriend or husbend contunes being respectful, fathful and make them smile once in a wile.

I am madly in love with my husbend and thats because he still treats me the same as he did when we first met.[/quote]

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