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[quote=GUEST11196,482617]I am a Muslim, my entire family is Muslim....

my brother's wife (originally Christian) is a converted Muslim... my best friend.. (Originally Jewish) is a converted Muslim...

When you fall in love, you should never base you judgement on the religion. The question you should ask yourself is that "Will I be able to live my life with anyone else BUT this person?"

if you answer is no I can't.. then make the effort to get to know what you are getting yourself into...

If you are answer is Yes I can.. then leave the person and never turn back to look at that person again...

Religion should not be the reason to be with or without someone... It should not even play a part!!

religion is something that is YOURS!.. not your boyfriends or your husbands... it is yours!

In Islam... if you don't embrace Islam with your heart .... then there is no point converting... (that goes for any religion.. if you don't do it from your heart .. there is no point.. stay who you are...) In Islam if you want to marry a Muslim.. that should not be the reason to your converting... Islam encourages to stay in the religion... and if tomorrow you break up or have a divorce.. you will no longer be muslim ... so really what's the point to do it for someone else... do it only for yourself if you want to... not for anyone in this entire world...

and a boyfriend or a husband can not force her as a Muslim to do that either!.. if he is doing that then it is wrong... it has to come from your friend's heart to do it for herself.... not for him...

Islam is not pressured... it is a way of life... no one can make you a Muslim if you don't want to be..... because being a Muslim means to follow a certain why to live a life...

Also, which might be very important for you friend... tell her if "you are not a good human being, then you are not a Muslim"... this is Islam.. and being a Muslim... and if he is not a good human being... then he is not a Muslim.... It will make it easy for her to decide...

tell her to take into consideration his decency, his respect for her and his/her elders and parents, his use of abusive words... how he treats people who are poor and disabled... how he is with children... how is he with the old... how he is with a person who is sweeping the Mc Donalds floor....does he respect people.. does he gossip..

Because in the end.. she will not be living with his "ISLAM" she will be living with his "PERSONALITY" and that is what will be passed on to her children... so before she makes a decision .. worry about him as a human being... then his religion...

and if she likes what she sees in his personality then she should study Islam to understand the way of life that he lives... and if she feels she WANTS to be part of that way of life then she should embrace Islam... and if she doesn't.. then she should feel pressured to convert.....

God bless![/quote]

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