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[quote=GUEST25018,645957]I have been married to a Chinese woman for 10 years.  She is 2 years younger than me and we are both now in our 50's.  At the time I met her I was spending 6 months a year in China.  We knew each other 2 years before getting married.  Before marriage I did notice she had a dominant personality and I liked that she was a strong woman.

The first 6 or 7 years of our marriage was rocky.  Lot's of fighting and mostly about money (her spending was out of control).  I controlled the fiancees but I paid all her credit cards regardless of how much she spent.  She wanted to control most everything in our marriage and I resisted and we had serious fights that nearly led to divorce.

Finally I made the decision to let her be in charge of the marriage and let her control the finances.  I also agreed to do all the housework.  I told her so and she was fine with it but didn't believe I was sincere.  I have proved my sincerity.  Basically I obey her and don't argue (99% of the time).  Surprisingly we both like this new arrangement.  Call it a loving FLR.  I wish I would have let her be in charge from the start.  Her out of control spending stopped overnight and so did the arguing.
  
I own my own business and she does not want to interfere in that.  I still see all the finances but most all our money is now in her account.  I keep enough money for myself so I am not deprived.
   
Our life is much better now including sex.  She does not try to control everything I do and stopped worrying so much about what I do.  She is not a heartless dictator.

My wife is Chinese but all Chinese are different.  I have met many Chinese women in China who act the opposite of my wife (not dominant).
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