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[quote=GUESTHK ARTS GUY,382618]3rd post:

1) Of coz, the above is about my personal choice. Colleges here are just as competitive for potential mates, I admit that too.
In our society, it's still always the nerds/nice guys who finish last. No question about it. I just wrote the 1st post to debunk the dichotomy.
But also, the Chinese society in general does place so much emphasis on utilitarianism, money, status, etc.
So it's hugely difficult for low achievers to date anyone.
It's unlike in the western society where pure sexual attraction clicks on more easily and directly than Chinese people.
Many girls I know of, or even know well, are very averse to sex.
I've heard of a minority of couples who won't even have sex and wait for marriage to have it.
Normally many couples now also follow the western liberal norm of having pre-marital sex,
(which is said to be even more notorious in mainland China)
but still, almost all Chinese girls I know of (I don't know any Asian American girls; ONLY those born and raised in this Chinese society),
they are actually averse to flirting and the kind of dating you see as normal in any other (western) society.

(Well.... IMNVHO, many of them look repulsive anyway, so I don't care).

2) Here's my positive part of this post.
I did come across dozens of western girls (mostly European), and they stroke me
as hugely attractive, because they were more honest (they said what they meant),
less materialistic (than some really nasty Chinese girls who are simply golddiggers, or expect too much from male partners),
and more importantly they are more open-minded,
more relaxed, more liberal, more generous (esp. in treating me as equal).
Western girls look to me more egalitarian and don't believe much in the patriarchal shit as
quite a lot of Chinese girls who implicitly believe, who concede, who don't admit, and who use it to abuse Chinese men.[/quote]

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