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[quote=GUEST24455,354873]Hello All,

I am currently dating and considering marrying a young chinese lady, that I meant while on a project in Saudi Arabia. I am an american, and I am concerned about her being able to adapt to the life style that I live. I travel a great deal, most of the time. I am rarely in one place for more than 6 months, because of my line of work. I have the ability for her to travel with me if most cases, but I am worried that she does not fully understand what she is getting into. I am also concerned about our cultural differences. I have been able to adapt to most of her habits and do not see any issues on my side, but I am worried that she may have a hard time adjusting to the western culture. She has no desire to live in America, and I can understand why.( Her life style is so much more relaxed than most westerners) and I believe she sees that in the way, I am. I am always on the go, and she does not understand why? (to be honest, most of the time I don't understand it either.)

With that being said, " I think she is the best thing since sliced bread." She is one of most beautiful ladies that I have ever had the pleasure meeting. She is very respectful, considerate, and extremely well mannered. She puts her wants and needs aside for me a lot of times, even when I ask her not too. (Western Women would never do that, or none of the ones I have ever met would) I have fallen head over heels for her, and I dont want to do anything to upset her way of life, or change anything about her. But I want to be with her for the rest of my life, and I am worried that my life will upset her and I would never want that to happen.I have never been in a situation like this. Where I worry more about her and the effects of my life may have on her, then what I want.

I guess, we all dream of meeting the perfect person a soul mate, if you will. I dont know where our relationship will lead or what is going to happen. I just know this is what I have been looking for for the longest time, I am a little scared of what My life will do to her. And I am not looking for an excuse to stop the relationship. Just advice on how to keep from upsetting her life?

Bob[/quote]

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