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[quote=GUESTHABIBI,605677]Same as other woman here. Im also inlove with a Muslim Indian guy. We have this so called "unlabeled relationship" for about a month now. We talked over the phone, vidcall, chat, we see each other almost everyday (cos his shop is just outside my flat). He's so sweet,thoughtful,loving & very religious man. I never thought i'll fall inlove.. worst is to a young muslim man. He is 11 yrs younger than me. I know love knows no barriers but still there r lots of reason not to.

1. He is so young.
2. He is a Muslim ( although the reason why i met him is that i asked him how to convert to Islam, as i want to be convert for 8 yrs now but im shy to go to the mosque to ask for assisstance)
3. He is from Kerala which part of their culture & tradition is Arrange Marriage.
4. He always think what his friends or other indians will think of him if i wave him hi when i saw him. So its a big No No
5. He cant let other ppl know that we r talking on phone or chat or vidcall. In short, we r nothing outside..

1 night he came to my flat to bring me food. I wasnt expecting it as he is always telling me he cant come to visit me as it is Haram. Then we kiss (like kissing a baby tbh) then we hug. Thats it..

I understand it all. I accept everything..and he knows it. i know 1 day he will leave me too. I know this is all wrong but it feels so right.. but im just a human, i will be lying if i tell u guys that i dont need him to visit me, or hug me.. everything is so hard. I guess this is what its gna be to be falling in love with a guy like him. Needs a lot of understanding,patience & loads of imagination (that 1 day u r walking with him in a park hand in hand or even go for a date in a restaurant).. will it hurt? Hell yaaa.. NO DOUBT!

On my part, theres no problem i think.. i mean im still catholic, not married (no husband,no kids), im an architect, im the only child, i only have my father as we lost my mom last 2014 of cancer.. its just that i think its a bit too late for me to fall inlove but when i finally felt it i guess its just not that easy..

Some may say here to stop it but we cant teach our heart who to fall inlove with or not. Love really moves in mysterious ways.. but i guess not applicable for some Non muslim woman with a muslim man, for so many reasons..

Happy new year everyone. May we all have a happy and prosperous new year!

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