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[quote=NEXUSBOY,288361]LEON8ME, I hear you brother! Upon reading your insightful contributions to this thread, all I can conclude is that your a sensible western man with sound moral judgement...but alas burnt by white women. The incontrovertible truth is that western womens perspectives are predominantly blighted this day and age by feminist falsehoods that for some reason are accepted as gospel in todays western society.

Its the unquestioning male majority that get hijacked by these values and one sided feminist principles that are the losers in the end. I can sympathize with some of what feminism meant once upon a time. What I cannot sympathize with is the numerous incidents out there of it eroding the fragile balance in the households of America, Australia, or any western nation now victim to this imbalance of roles between men and women.

There is nothing wrong with a strong western woman asserting her rights or beliefs in life. What is questionable is when a woman becomes so apathetic and jaded about gender roles that she loses the ability to be empathetic to her partner. No ones likes an unfeeling uncaring insensitive woman driven only by what is advantageous or convenient to her. There must be some feeling left in there somewhere, some genuineness and sincerity. Sorry but admittedly I also have to agree that foreign women still possess some of this old world charm of what it means to be a lady that others lack. Westerners have become so bent out of shape with gender roles and equality that the shoe is now on the other foot. Men are now feeling the pressures with this conformity and hence feeling emasculated. And hey guess what! its not attractive. At least not to men with half a clue.

Ladies men like partners that can be fair, but this underlying issue of equality sometimes borders on women taking the position of entitlement. Its not very appealing at the end of the day to having your partner perform a juggling act only to still have him sit on the sidelines because his performance still rates as under average (a judgment usually to the womans discretion) . There is only so many men out there willing to take that sort of ingratitude.

So in fairness I think its not about western women vs foreign women, its merely about whether western men like the idea of chasing the near impossible dream of having a lady that is not reluctant to give 110% as he is, without being bombarded by skewed ideals and selfish unrealistic ultimatums of what her idea of fairness between genders is. Something foreign women don't even make a sticking point about, given they are quite assertive as it is if they really feel strongly about something without making it a gender issue.[/quote]

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