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[quote=GUEST90237,292233]I wanted to add my feedback to this thread based on my own personal experience. I an american who married a Chinese woman in Feb. '07, and am beginning to regret it. In the beginning she was attentive and seemed open. Before we were married she would write almost every day which seemed very open and honest. The first six months of our relationship she sent a Christmas present and a card for my birthday. After we got married, nothing. I sent her cards for Christmas, Chinese New Years and her birthday. She didn't even remember my birthday this year. Since we have been married, I visited her twice in China and the only communication we have now is by e-mail and webcam. I began to notice a long time ago that her letters were all sounding the same; very little about her life or what she was experiencing. The majority of the correspondences have been to say "I love you" and "I miss you", very little else. Besides saying very little the number of times she writes has dwindled down to once or twice a week. In the past we tried to meet on-line once a week and even that has become less and less.Last night she e-mailed to say something had come up and she couldn't meet me. Each time it happens she says it is work. I am beginning to truly believe that she only married me to obtain a visa. I would very much appreciate anyones thoughts on this situation and if anyone else has had similar experiences.[/quote]

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