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[quote=GUEST69221,295815]I don't know guys, but my experience with chinese girls isn't nice. One of them screwed my boyfriend...I know it's his fault and yes I shouldn't generalize but hear me out. 
My boyfriend went to China for a year to train tai chi and do the whole "learn more about yourself" journey. We thought that our relationship can survive the distance, we thought the love is strong enough. However it was more difficult than we both imagined. There was a lot of love but talking to eachother brought mainly frustration, jealousy and pain. So soon we found ourselves confused and there was a big gap between us. He met this very cool and friendly chinese girl he told her about me and they became friends I suppose. He was lonely far from home and she was nice to him. However she had her own plan. So one day he got very drunk and she used his confusion and kissed him....he slept with her. Yes, he was the one to blame. But do nice girls do that? After the incident she changed...she was no longer the easygoing laidback cool friend...she became the pushy "you are gonna be my westerner" kind of girl. She started sending him strange emails where I love you appeared a lot but didn't feel quite right. He freaked out and stoped all the contact with her. He explained to her that he loved me and that he made a mistake. I went to China to save our relationship and stayed for  three months, I didn't know about the girl at the time. She was still in town and she kept on playing her dirty game. She tried to arrange secret meetings with him, she sent a stranger to incidentally mantion their relationship in front of me, she even tried the old emotional blackmail. I found out about her when we got back to England and I was devastated. I know it is all very personal stuff and it could happen with any girl, but the chinese mindset and upbringing doesn't help. I was teaching English while in China and I had a chance to talk to group of chinese girls 20+. They all agreed that money and success is more important than real love. All of them said that they would be willing to leave their true love if it meant to have more money and comfortable easy life. Money and comfort is just too important and too attractive to the women of China.

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