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[quote=KINJIM                  ,34342]I really do think money is most important thing in China. As long as you have money in China to spend and tavel, you are very well of, sod the idea of happiness and true love. It rarely or no longer exists in China. Why do you see young women with men many years their senior ? Is this love ?It is a very realistic and materialistic life here.I have no complaints against foreigners here, some are nice people looking for true love and I sympathise with those that cannot fid love oin their home country and seek this in China for example. But what I do not envy are those arrogant expats who think they are God and women will fall over their feet for them. Many expats are single here and for reasons cited. They come here and treat the place like some whore house. I think they could at least respect the people and place, but this is unlikely. On the other hand you have the demand, the expats and the supply side you have the women here. This is a shame and is one reason why some foreigners still look down on Chinese people.please check out www.shanghaiexpat.com, look at the many many topis on love and relationship, personal section. It very much explains the situation.Do you know what is the difference between westerners and Chinese ? The colour of the skin.All this stereotyping that westerners are more handsome, richer, kinder, romantic is no different than Chinese. You can just as well find that Chinese people are the same as westerners.Those Chinese woman who "specifically: only date westerners are living in a deluded life. They live in their own fantasy world whereby once they get their western bf or husband, everything will be fine for ever from now on. This is highly naive and ignorant. There exists many of this type in China, especially Beijing and Shanghai. Of course, there are many expats here looking for true love and not players, I wish them well but the reputation of expats are that they are players. This is a genuine and truthful statement.On the otherhand, you have the gold digging women which have given Shanghai women as being money grabbing sluts. This also is true statement. In fact, I would say the majority of males who come here looking for girls either as part of their process of living in China. Expats may start of with good intention and behaviour when they first arrive but they can easily turn bad just by the attention given to them by the sluts and that they want to "enjoy" life in ways they could not have done so in their home country.ALl in all, nobody force us to do anything, you decide whether you want to take the bait and catch the fish. There are players on both parties. The only losers are those with the good intention of seeking true love whjo end being cheated , one night love or money.[/quote]

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