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[quote=GUESTKIMBERLY,491905]Hello, my name is Kimberly. I am currently in a relationship with a Chinese man from He nan. He came to the United States when he was 7 years old. He is by far the best love I have ever known. His name is Meng. I was previously in a 3 year relationship with a black man and before then, a 2 year relationship with a Mexican, and before then a 1 year relationship with a Jewish man. Biracial relationships are common where I live. I am Salvadorean. My Chinese man is the BEST lover and friend I have ever had. I can always depend on him for kindness and tender affection as well as romantic lust and protection. I mean the world to him and I can feel it every day. He always notices the days when I am sad and when I am happy.

Now to answer these questions:

~YES!
~NO! my hubby loves to go on hiking trips with me share scary stories with me cook with me, watch comedy with me, tickle me, hug me, encourage me, and he enjoys watching me go on and on about my dreams, ideas, hopes, and fears. 
~YES! My hubby has a bit of a spending problem and he gambles a bit(sometimes typical for the Chinese culture) but he appreciates me talking to him about being frugal and money savvy(Typical for the Latin culture). he loves to share food. SHARING FOOD IS A MUST!!! i cant begin to tell you how personal he takes it when I don't want to share my food. Morals, my hubby loves to teach me new things about life and his views and how people should respect each other and have strong family values. He sticks to me like glue because his values of family and relationship soul mates are strong.  
~mmmmmmmm, this one is tricky, my Chinese hubby loves to fix all my problems, but he has never asked me foe help in his. My Meng is very bright and resourceful, he can always find a solution for anything. What I can say is that every time I have seen him upset I ask him if I can hold his hand and talk about it with him. He appreciates my concern and I make it clear I am his partner and I want to support him. He sometimes expresses his frustrations and other times he kisses me on the forehead and tells me thank you and I Love You.
~My Meng loves being romantic, he love to buy me heels and show me off to the world. He is extremely romantic and sensitive. He is the best lover I have ever had. He always waits for me and enjoys watching my body relax and get weak. He always hugs me after and showers me with tiny kisses.  
~My Meng knows I do not waste my time. He knows I want a man I can rely on and who can always love me. He sees marriage as an eternal bond between a man and a women that god has blessed to occur. he is very religious and believes marriage is a gift not an investment or a convenience for survival. yes, he wants to have children, but this is because he wants to be happy and successful in life with his wife. 
~NO!!! why would you ask this? any man in any marriage does not want to find love else where unless he is an asshole and doesn't deserve you to begin with.[/quote]

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