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[quote=GUEST09238,359634]Last May I missed a flight to Beijing and had to wait a few days to get on a different flight.  It was my first trip to China from the US.  I was nervous traveling myself.  I found myself in the middle seat on the airplane with a man who did not speak english on my left and chinese woman on my right.  The chinese woman did talk with me when I said hello to her but she was shy and nice.  We talked a little and when we landed in Beijing she showed me to the baggage area. Her smile and eyes communicated to me a very nice feeling.  I told her if she ever needed help in america please let me know and I gave her my email.  A few weeks after my return home she sent me an email and asked about my trip and if I enjoyed the visit (business trip) to china.  We sent a few emails and then chatted on line.  I found her very nice and her voice so comforting.  We met in California (LA) last October, her first trip back to get some paperwork take care of in LA.  I helped her get around and we stayed together for a few days.  She worked in CA for two years and has a green card.  She informed me she was taking a new job in Malaysia and that she would move from her city in China to Kuala Lumpur for 4 years.  We continued to talk (calling cards are great as well as on line) and now I will make my second trip to Kuala Lumpur. She made me feel so comfortable and loved when I visited her about two months ago.   I am not sure why I missed my flight last May and ended up next to her.  She is still getting over a relationship of 4 years and I know she has a broken heart.  She is working very hard in Malaysia, long days and traveling often to parts of china and even europe.  She tells me she is so tired and wants to stop the hard work and settle down. She has told me she loves a few times.  I am 44 and she is 38.  . I have found my happiness in that she has allowed me to hold her heart.  I am so afraid she will tell me we cannot be together because she is afraid.  I will continue to listen to her, she is so nice and so considerate and genuine. I am from a very small town, well educated, have two children and a good job.  I am not worried about finances or a rocky future, I know together we can make a good future but I feel she has had such struggles in her life that she is reluctant to fall in love and make a big move.  It is very difficult for me to live in the US and talk with her in Malaysia each day (twice a day we talk).  We both get along so well and our laughing together feels so nice.  How can I continue knowing such a beautiful person with a very tender heart?  How do you think she feels when  I tell her I would like to take care of her and enjoy a happy life?  I work too much and for the  first time in many years, I feel so good.  I am scared as well.  One part of me wants to listen and see what happens and another part of me wants to tell her, I am coming to get you, let's stop the torture.  I know I will need energy, patience and understanding.  It is so hard.[/quote]

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