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[quote=GUEST85237,450486]I am a Chinese girl, 22 years old. I grew up in Austria and did my undergradaute in the UK, currently enrolling in a masters degree in the UK. 
I dated an Iranian millionaire who recently who asked me to marry him. I was hesitant because i was unsure of how this relationship/marriage will turn out. will we be blessed by our parents, or the society at large? 
He is now dating someone else, probably slightly older than me but still in her twenties.
I am devastated. For whatever reason, i feel like 'my man' is dating some other random girl, and that hurts so much.

I told him that i am considering building a family with him. He said i better think through about marriage, stop talking/contacting him for a month and try dating other men. if i still want him then, talk to a trusted person my age, talk to my parents then decide whether i want to marry him.

i don't know what to do. one minute i cherish the idea of the two of us and our children, another minute i cannot believe i will be married at the age of 22 to a man who's 47! the idea of marriage is daunting but the idea of being with him for the rest of my life is beautiful.

But what happens 20 years down the line? when i will be in my early 40s and he'll be 60 approaching 70? Will i spend the rest of my life alone? is he 'stealing' my youth like he says he is?

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