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[quote=GUEST22441,372237]I can only comment based on my experience.

I met a Chinese-born woman through a well known online dating service here in Canada (she lives here and is a citizen) and we spent many weeks in a classic courtship.  We enjoyed getting to know each other gradually without physical contact of any kind, not even holding hands, and this meant we were not distracted by anything at all.  In fact, we originally had no intent to move toward a relationship, only a friendship.  However, as time passed, we came to realize that we had the same intent in a relationship, the same values, and the same desires.

I found her sense of moral values to be rare in western culture and she is certainly not "subservient" in any way.  She is driven toward success and entirely independent, as well as well educated and worldly.  I was certainly attracted to her physically, but the emotional connection that developed during our courtship was the most incredible I’ve ever experienced.  She welcomed my absolute honesty, chivalry and attention to her feeling safe with me, and my desire for a committed relationship and children.

To those that feel that only “losers” or less than marketable western men seek relationships with Asian woman, I must disagree.  I’m a successful businessman with a stable and comfortable life that certainly could have chosen someone of my own ethnic background, but I don’t base anything on race.  It’s all about the person, their values, desires and honor.  She never knew my financial position before we committed to one another and although I’ve also heard that some Asian women take advantage of this kind of situation, it’s sad that anyone applies this to all Asian women.  Every culture has it’s parasites.  Don’t assume anything, or label anyone.  You might miss out on a wonderful opportunity to be incredibly happy.

So, my advice is to seek the person you want without considering their race.  Get to know them very well and consider their values.  Make sure they have the same intent for the relationship as you do.  My opinion is that Chinese women have a wonderful understanding of what is important in this world, and that I am incredibly lucky to have found my soulmate.  I could care less about what others might see when they see a tall Caucasian walking with a petite Asian woman.  You see, we are holding hands, completely happy, truly in love and planning our future together.  That is all that’s important.[/quote]

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