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Thread: Once you marry a Chinese woman, it is tantamount to marrying her entire family.

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[quote=GUEST88224,554792]I have read several of the messages posted here but I chose to answer yours.  I met and communicated with a Chinese woman for over 10 months and then visited her in China.  I fell in love with her deeply and her family was wonderful and I love them as well.  We married in America and I thought we would be happy together in America and we have been for the most part. I had told her that I did not make huge amounts of money and she said at that time that she did not care because I was a very nice man and treated her very well, and of course she loved me deeply as well. Chinese women do value money and materialistic acquisitions very highly and watch out if they meet other Chinese women who have more than they do or their husbands make more money than you do in your home country.  They follow the customs of Chinese men and expect you to do the same, (except for the mistress part) who are responsible financially to their wives but their husbands also have mistresses on the side after they feel that their wives are too old for them.  In other words, as long as their husbands provide for them a comfortable living arrangement and they do not need to go to work themselves and just go shopping everyday, then they will be satisfied with you. They also have very good memories when it comes to your discrepancies but can find none about themselves, and they are quick to lose their tempers and blast you until you feel worthless.  I still love my Chinese wife, deeply, but sometimes it is very difficult to get through a day without her bringing up the fact I do not make as much money as her Chinese friends husbands do or that we do not have what she thinks or reasons that love should be, which is usually connected to money in some way.  As for making love, or showing any kind of affection, like kissing, holding hands, or just holding each other, that is something that may or may or may not happen, especially if she decides that she wants to bring up something from the past that should have been laid to rest long ago just before you go to bed.. Chinese women are just the same as other women when it comes to a husband supporting them, it is just they attach money to that love more than most women do.  Loving someone should not come with an attachment of how much money or material possessions you may have, or any kind of conditions except for loving the person through their faults and the kind of person they are within. (you can call me a hopeless romantic but that is the way I have always felt that love should be) I love my Chinese wife in that way, regardless of what she says to me or does, I have always loved her the same way...deeply.  It is unfortunate that the Chinese culture has always thought that every American man, Canadian man, or Englishman, is wealthy and there is nothing we can do about it, regardless of nice we treat our Chinese wives.[/quote]

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