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[quote=GUEST12318,435019]Hi everyone. I have been writing to a lady in Handan for two months. I am very keen to meet her, but I was very surprised when she made the offer to meet herself. I am invited to meet her and an interpreter in Bejing, spend some days there and then to Handan to see her town and her family. She is  a 46 year old divorcee, I am 52 years old and not that good looking (I don't break mirrors very often) We have discussed and seem to overcome the fact that I have a hare-lip and cleft palate. Problem is, being a stupid romantic, I am only seeing the UP side of this. The lady seems genuine and is open about her divorce, and her daughter, who I would take to be an adopted daughter, but she will stay in China to complete her education. I confess that I think things are moving perhaps a little too fast, that this really is too good to be true. The planned meeting is for mid-September. Should I be worried by the speed that this relationship has apparently developed? Should I be worried about travelling to Beijing and Handan alone? I have only traveled in Europe before. After reading these postings I am a little discouraged, and perhaps even more unsure. I do not want to miss this opportunity to make a happy life both the lady and myself. All comments and advice would be most welcome.[/quote]

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