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[quote=GUESTLYN,607661]like all race and nationalities, there are men who are good and kind to their wife and family. there are those who are unfaithful and spending out of control.  you have to trust yourself, even then there are the almighty power of in laws from hell.  you will find your Chinese husband constantly use the word 'he have to be the filial son', I have to do what my parents said blah blah blah.

my Chinese husband can be romantic and lovey dovey in  public which is embarrassing for me as being chinese in uk considering the English does not show it publicly. he loves having sex but that's as far as it goes to being a husband. his parents would object to everything that a decent husband and father would do. so being filial, he would spend out of control and all credit card with no means of repayment and as his parents said, get your wife to pay it since she wants to marry you. they told him to spend all his salary and more. his wife and kids don't need it. don't pay off mortgage. buy house use wife money for deposit. just pay interest and sell it off.

so being a Chinese man wifes, I have to give up my job to look after the kids because my in laws felt threaten that he loves me so much and I have a legal career, they instructed him, tho he willingly do as bidded, made me jobless and homeless at the same time and sabotage my kids because they don't like our kids being intelligent and clever in school as they listen to me. they want the kids to listen to their son and disobey the mother. so my husband step in to stop them studying, skive off school, no homework, best daddy ever playing all day, on square box all the time and no eating properly. spend money without sense of value or control.
 Apparently being a filial son was the ultimate thing with these Chinese man from china or who grew up in uk, us etc but the parents are from china.

so don't be fool by all these romantic lovey dovey attention. once married, you could be bless or it could be a living hell like me. recently despite all he had done and I confronted him, he claim he thought I was his soul mate because i do everything that both husband and wife do on my own whilst he goes to work and galavanting elsewhere spending out of control and I had to deal with the mess. recently found he bought baby food from the town where he worked Monday to friday! our youngest is age 10! still he play dumb!

I bought our first house as his parents don't allow him to buy a marital home for us despite being married. but he insist on following me and have the nerve to sign the contract. then 18 years later, I found out my name not only been removed, but I was tricked to sign away my house and he had borrowed 100k out of two properties that I paid the deposit for. I was gobsmack. when confronted, he claimed that I agreed to it and that I agreed not to pay off the mortgage. I am not dumb but he is so deluded that he think just by saying it , it makes it ok.

Be ON GUARD if you do get married no matter who[/quote]

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