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[quote=GUEST27136,40777]Hi.  I want to ask this community a question about a guy i'm seeing.

He's generous with his time and likes to meet me, and calls me regularly.  But when it comes to money, he's cheap with me.  The most he's ever done is buy me half of a dinner.  We shared one bento box (half and half).  Then the same day he asked me to go see a movie.  I don't have any income right now, so I asked him to pay for my movie.  Ended up, he paid for half of my movie and said to me, "I'm subsidizing you."

What do you think?  I like him but his spending manner gives me a different message.  From his talking, he seems to like me a lot, and he's generous with his time.  For example, if I want some company for a walk around town, he'll come with me.  But now he wants me to be his girlfriend and I can't say yes if the guy won't even buy me a dinner.  And if I have to TELL him that... (he's 34 years old) --  isn't that ridiculous?

Is it possible to give someone a lot of love, but not much money??  Can a guy use that as an explanation for his behavior?   What do you think?[/quote]

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