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[quote=GUEST11113,52797]Here’s my story:
I’m a 21 years old girl, from southwest europe, currently studying and fighting to finish my mastership with merit. My objectives were well defined: get good marks, a scholarship and maybe studying abroad, have a successful career, be economically independent and stop to be a burden for my parents.
Ok, that was all clear until the day this boy crossed my path. We meet during lunch time, on the canteens of my university. He come from nowhere and sits next to me. His asian appearance immediately caugh my interest, since I’m fascinated by Asia and I’m attending a Japanese language course at night. So It can’t be helped, I start to talk with him. After all he was Chinese and he was learning my language and staying in my uni for some months until return to China. It was a very interesting talk and in the end he asked my contact, I accept, maybe I could help him someway. Ok, he didn’t sound like a traditional shy asian boy, that surprised me. Several weeks passed, I had almost forgotten this event when he sends me a message. He would like to talk with me again and was inviting me for a dinner with friends. Big surprise…I refused ‘cause I had exam next day and also it sounded scary lol…we keep  sharing sms and then we finally meet 2 weeks later, he invited me for a party. I went with a friend (u never know…) and   that was our 2nd meeting at live. It was a great night, very nice people and I noticed that he was always looking at me or near me, even when I was talking with another ppl. Later he offered me a drink and we started to talk (the world around disappears) until he finally hold my hands and kinda confess his ‘love’! Very embarassing…so I realize ‘it’s late and I’ve to go back home’. At last he takes me home and when I was expecting a simple ‘goodbye’ he kisses me before left!… I was caught in the flow completely. The next days were a mess…though the work keeps me busy during the day, he always message me or invited me for coffee or dinner, in other words, we started to date. My feelings are contradictory because I feel good near him and I miss him when he’s not around, but at the same time, all this gives me anxiety and pain ‘cause he will have to leave soon and I don’t see myself leave everything here to go after him. I just can see a dead end...even when he says he want to make a life here in the future and so on. The cultural shock and our different lifestyles will collide soon or later, such an unusual couple …but he still puts such effort on this. He treats me very well and supports me when I’m having hard times with my studies…
And now I wonder...better end all of this now, before we hurt each other or take the risk of an uncertain relationship? Also, he may be just looking for a summer adventure with a “white chick” before he goes back to his country, and I’m not looking for this at all! 
Any advices are welcome, I’m lost about the best move to do next…[mood11]

Sorry for the long text! :S 
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