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[quote=CHERRY07,384285]The relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a very serious issue in China. Being someone’s wife, you have to handle the relationship to your mother-in-law. A smart wife knows how to handle the relationship very well. Here are Twelve Golden Rules that a smart wife should observe.

No.1 Never quarrel with your mother-in-law even it was her fault. 
If you quarrel with her, your husband will be in a dilemma. And people will think that you are uneducated.

No.2 Don’t slander her in the presence of your husband. 
Please bear in mind that she is the one who has raised your husband for many years. You can’t never replace her in your husband’s mind. Just think about this: Can you stand your husband slander your parents?

No.3 Don’t speak ill of her in front of other people. 
If she learns what you said about her, a war will happen. Do you think your husband will back you up? A smart wife just praise her mother-in-law in public even she knows her mother-in-law speak ill of her behind her.

Just remember this: Each family has a skeleton in the cupboard. Don’t let other people know it.

No.4 If you live together with her, don’t get back to your parents’ home every time you get angry.

When your husband goes to your home to pick you up, your parents might scold him and require him to treat you well. Then you probably feel better. But do you ever think of your husband? He might bear it one or two times. If you get back home every time you get angry, I am sure that he will break out one day.

If your mother-in-law tells you “Don’t step into this house again” when you pick up your luggage and leave for your parents’ home, what are you going to do, getting back to your bedroom with tears in your eyes or insisting on leaving your husband? This time, your husband can’t help you. You know they are very obedient to their mothers. If you leave, she might persuade him to divorce.

No.5 Even she doesn’t treat you well, please don’t exaggerate the facts when you talk to your parents or friends.

No.6 Find an opportunity to let her know that you are not just a timid cat.

Remember to do this in a clever way.

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