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[quote=GUEST0654,503458]Do you quarrel with your girlfriend or wife? If so, who is the first one to make a compromise? I have been with my girlfriend for three years. Every time we quarrel, I am the one who apologizes and seeks for the make-up no matter it’s my fault or not. The day before yesterday, we had a fierce quarrel. We didn’t say a word to each other for 24 hours. Yesterday morning, I planned to make a compromise and make up with her. However, I changed my mind after reading her tweets on her Twitter. She wrote “Me, her boyfriend, is a piece of junk.” To be honest, I felt heartbroken. I never thought that she could compare me to a piece of junk. Previously, when we quarreled, I never said any dirty word to her. I always believe that some words should never be spoken out, for example, “break-up”. If a lover speaks “break-up” every time they quarrel, I am pretty sure that they will break up at last. When you speak it for the first time, she/he might not care about it. However, she/he will take it seriously if you speak it many times. Her words make me feel that all I have done for her is worthless. I am worthless to her too. My friends comfort me that my girlfriend just wrote it when she was angry. “It doesn’t make any sense. When people get angry, their IQ is zero. Your girlfriend’s IQ was zero when she wrote that sentence. You shouldn’t have taken it seriously. As a man, you should have a broad mind.”, said he. I know that his words make sense. But I still feel uncomfortable. I make compromise every time because I love her. Why can’t she take notice of all the efforts I have done? I am a bit tired. [/quote]
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