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Thread: Marry The Man You Love or Love The Man You Marry.
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[quote=PINETREE ,22740]Whilst flipping back to the older threads, I came across this thread. I find this so interesting that I can't help re-visiting & commenting on it - albeit very late.Love and marraige are 2 different matters altogether. One is a state of emotion, the other a commitment.I my view, 2 persons can fall in love but do not need to be married. Marriage is the decision of 2 persons to live together, hopefully through thick & thin, looking out for each other and maybe raise a family together. It is a contract mainly for the security of the gal - sorry.Ideally one likes to marry the person he/she loves. But it is not a necessity. People enjoy falling in love, romance & dating. They should continue to enjoy this process for as long as they can - why get married at all ? Some very poor people cannot afford to enjoy the process of falling in love. Marriage is a way out to improve their lives - not love. So be it - nothing to do with meal market or whatever. And it is not prostitution. The gal is contracted/ committed to the man when she marries him. And she doesn't sell herself to any Tom, Dick or Elcab... who might be able to afford to pay. Of cos, the modern society has changed so much that this concept could vary from society to society & to different people.[/quote]
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