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[quote=PINETREE ,23458]Indeed, love & marraige are 2 different matter. When in love, there is no need for marriage - just keep loving each other. Hahaha !! Find that Chinese gals are still very traditional - like that, tho !Back to having kids - the reasons for having kids so far as brought by the gals here & from what I commonly hear are :-- companionship- as backup during old age or when sick/weak- carrying on the family name- to procreate & ensure mankind survives - "it is the way life is about"In a large country like China and as well as agricultural countries, people is manpower. Thus to have more kids means more helping hands. Also, less mentally-equipped children can still survive as long as they are physically OK. In small countries & urban societies, the picture is quite different. Children have to be both phsyically healthy & mentally excellent. For those who can cope with competition, expectation & pressure of the society, there is no problem. For those who cannot, it is almost a disaster.There is no guarantee that the kids will be borne healthy. What if they are borne handicapped ? Neither can anyone guarantee that children will be borne reasonably intelligent.Under such risks, why do we wanna bring children into this world to possibly suffer ? When one examines all the above common reasons for having children, they are all "selfish" ones. So having children is a selfish act on part of the parents !![/quote]
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